I look at my alternative everyman predicament this way. By letting go of what you thought was going to happen in your life, you can enjoy what is actually happening.
That is what I do.
I'm That Guy.
You likely won't know him by name but as soon as you see the first image in the piece you'll know exactly who he was and your heart will drop. This is a sad loss with the silver lining of Taylor's beautiful writing on what it's like to be fame-ish. It's a must read.